Tuesday, March 30

study week and the finals

i wish u da very very very very besssstt of luck!
i trust u can do better then before
the only thing im looking forward to see is u to be somebody
trust urself
best efforts will lead to the best result

(finals; 5/4/10-16/04/10)


Monday, March 29

'rencah' untuk gambar sempurna

calling all camwhores! whether u'r a closet case or unabashedly one, mengaku sajalah~
seme org mmg na nmpk mnarek n mabeless n gorrjesss je lah lam gmbo-gambo yg mereke-mereke ini snap. xde pon yg na nmpk burok. so, here five tips for u guys on how to always look pic-purrrfect!

1) mate kamu akan kelihatan a lil bit droopy afta taking a few drinks. so make sure snap pics banyak-banyak before ur 2nd or 3rd drinks.

2) avoid lippies yg colour die nude or seakan pucat-pucat as camera flashes will make u look like the zombies. used yg rich shades such as berry as it look more flattering on everyone.

3) bile snap pics outdoor, wait till dusk kerana bayang-bayangan lessen at this moment. care ini dapat membuatkan ur eye-bags tak nampak obvious sangat. =P

4) untuk senyuman kelihatan genuine or asli, say "money". selalunye la kan, words yg end with 'e' sounds membuatkan bibir ke atas and it adds happy crinkles kpd mate anda. so say moneyyyyyyyyyy instead of senyummmmmm~

5) jangan terlalu over-style rambut kamu. this will look fake as one with movement looks much sexier in pics than stiff styles.

okep, sile la beramal dan mencube~ GOODLUCK! =)

Making Him Ur UNIVERSE

u say: this weekend i thought it would be really nice for us to just hang out with each other, maybe see a film and have a romantic dinner on saturday night.
he says: sorry, i can't. i've got lotsa works on saturday and then i've got a club meeting on sunday afternoon, hockey on the evening. plus i need to prepare for my presentation on monday.

the problem;
u have made him the center of ur world. but because he hasn't done the same u've started to feel like u'r giving more to the relationship than he is. he has kept up his sporting interests and other hobbies which give him enjoyment and bring him back to u feeling fresh and good about himself. by contrast, u have dropped most of ur interests and have tried to pick up some of his eventhough u find them a bit of a snore-fest. the more u mould ur interests to suit his tastes the more u seem kind of needy. the thing is, he fell for u of who u r. so if u make urself over to be like him then u may be changing some of the very aspects of urself then he was so attracted to in the 1st place.

play it cool;
think a little like u'r still single. get back on the netball or indoor soccer team and start going to dance classes again. meet ur bestie once a week to see a fim. often women get in habit adopting their partner's like because they want approval. mistakenly, u think that differences of opinion or taste may mean u'r not really soulmates. in fact, differing tastes, values and attitudes are healthy sign of emotional vitality and they keep thing fresh and interesting.

'if u love someting set it free.
if it comes back it is urs.
if it doesn't, it never was'



traditionally, smart women have always been portrayed as loners, with too many cats and heavily rimmed glasses.

yeah, it's true. most of the time, the women who men salivate over are lauded for their physical attributes; their intelligence is almost a novelty.

natalie portman
she's beautiful. but the fact that she has a psychology degree from Harvard is treated as a mere footnote to her look.

it's hard to think smart and sexy aren't mutually exclusives when it comes to women if, traditionally, there' always been a divide between the two. if this weren't the case, every ugly duckling makeover in teen flicks wouldn't involve a nerdy girl takin out her ponytail and tossing away her glasses. in that magical art, she becomes 'sexy'.

women have been portrayed as empty status symbols and decorative objects of male desire: think the sexy babe in luxury-car advertising.and women have responded to this systematic objectification by striving to fashion themselves as carbon copies of the imagined object of male desire.
so if we think men don't find intellect arousing, then why even bother showing them our brainy sides?

first of all, things are starting to change for the better. women's movement and several ways of feminism over the past century have finally had some lasting effects. the result is that women can now challenge the notion of what is 'sexy' and change the perception that a smart women is the quiet, shy girl, hiding behind her glasses. she is, in fact, much more than that.